They always say; “Those closer to you know how best to bring
you down”. Well to some extent there is massive truth to it but at the same
time.
For this article, I
actually reminisced about my own personal life. I always get questions as to ‘why you a loner?’ ‘why don’t you have many
female friends?’
Technically one in their
sane mind would say I am a BITCH.
There is some truth to that and here are some of the reasons;
I
despise bull-shitters. Come strolling into my life all
flowery and rosy and yet the manure that helped you grow is what you taint of.
I hate such goons. Like seriously? Sigh….but amazing thing about these persons,
they are just there for a season then they find someone else to stick on once
you pull their bluffs.
I
hate self centered characters. It doesn’t hurt when
once in awhile we put ourselves first….ok scratch that…..we should always put
ourselves first… (After our Creator; depending on your religion and our
children). But why do some people think that it is always about them? They are
always right? It’s their way or the highway? Like seriously? I think there
should be an alternative planet for such people. How self-centered can you
bloody get? These are people who in my head, I see myself dunking then into a
huge tint of colored paint then glue their lips together (I have no idea but
that’s the though I always have in my mind. I know you may also have worse
ideas than I do…)
I
loathe back stabbers. I love this bunch of people though. What I
find amazing about them is they will stab you in the back and assume that you
have no clue. You may have known them for years and years but they are still
the same people who when you fly out of town they will come round and destroy
your home.
Now you understand why
having girlfriends isn’t part of my vocabulary. I do have friends who are girls
but over the years I have learnt to be real with myself. There’s no point of
having several friends in your circle and yet they don’t grow you or even have
your back. It doesn’t hurt to be real with yourself because at the end of the
day, you’re the only person who gets disappointed. My confidant gave me this
reality check and was dem right. I have no remorse for all the baggage that I have
shaded off. At the end of it all; BEEN REAL WITH YOURSELF IS
THE MOST PRICELESS THING EVER AND HURTS NO ONE.
NOW YOU KNOW...
