Life has a way of changing just like the seasons; spring, summer winter and fall. Funny thing is that, we all go through these seasons annually but at the same time we experience them emotionally without knowing.
Summer- FULL BLOSSOM in some regions, this is time to get our lightest clothes on, have a break from the normal school routine, relax, party and have fun.
Fall- this is when we see plants wither in prep for the cold weather. We turn into a chilled out mode. Recap on how the summer was and wait for the winter
Winter- everything comes to a standstill. Animals hibernate, plants die, and we struggle to stay in all snuggly warm and away from the cold weather, stuck in with nowhere to go. In some regions it’s the rain. Pours like crazy introducing bugs that drive people mad, shoes get messed; hair is another story all together. We all can’t wait for winter to ever pass.
Spring- this season always brings out new life; fresh beginnings, fresh start for everything. Blossoming flowers…. Explaining spring…..
Now see any relation of the seasons with what we go through?
Winter- when we are faced with situations that hold us back, we try fighting them but find that they are actually bigger than us. We at times tend to shut ourselves away from the world and pray that the snow and rain will go away as soon as possible but all that happens is that the weather gets darker and darker by each second. We try fighting it by keeping warm and yet it still seems to be impossible. We keep praying that the next day will be a better day than today.
Spring- all is clear. We have found a way of working round our issues and are now able to look at people and show case your radiance of success and joy. Moving into a new house, entering a new level in a relationship, getting a better paying job, first day of school, getting pregnant…there are so many instances where we experience spring without knowing. Staring a new life is what spring is all about.
Summer- for me this is working off your butt in order to get what you want. Striving to be the best and at the top; hence all the sweating and perseverance to reach where we want to be. To some extent we have to sacrifice a lot to reach a certain point and at times it’s not beneficial to our own being, but in some twisted way it gets to someone’s advantage. Yeah, there is an element of relaxation but still we are always on our toes, trying to get the right answers, no?
Fall- here we are able to sit down and try and see what we have accomplished? Have I made someone’s day? Is my child happy? Does my better half understand where I’m coming from? Here we take time to chill back and ask several questions as to whether we are close to reaching the pinnacles we had set out to achieve and at the same time making choices that may either make or destroy us
You do realize that we always go through these seasons and at some point we have no idea how to handle them and end up making the most stupidest choices some been relevant others……….well not so irrelevant either question is how do you handle them?
