We always read about BOY CODE and always hear the same ish day in day out but why is it that us girls never abide to it? Why is it that we stab each other way into deep and yet our bonding is more stronger than the guys?
GIRL CODE #1
Be True to yourself.
You will never be true to others if you can't be true to yourself. Honesty is the one virtues that the human brain needs in order to sustain sane relationships with not only oneself but with others around them. BE TRUE GAL.
GIRL CODE#2
Sisterhood is stronger than BALLS...
Its soo funny how we always tend to pick dudes over ourselves. We actually break our sisterhood bonds in order to be with a guy. At the end of the day, the guy will taste you, use you then leave you by yourself and you ask yourself, "was it really worth it?" I've watched gals go through that countless of times and i have also been a victim of this; left for a man. Coming back to re-work this realtionships is usually not that easy because it is broken hearts coming together to work things out. At times it may be successful. At times it may never be workable. Tip: Is he really worht it? is he really worth losinf a sister?
GIRL CODE #3
Sharing is caring
We are known to talk alot...in comparison to the male species. Whenever we undergo issues, we fall back onto our gals as venting pillows or shoulders we ca lean on. Like i always say, a problem shared is half solved. Whenever you talk an issue out, you feel a light weighted lifted off your shoulders and at the same time a nother gal could easily relate to it. I shared that experience with 3 of my gals who are now more like sisters to me..... A PROBLEM SHARED IS HALF SOLVED.
GIRL CODE #4
We are all the same.
Despite the color, race, religion or beliefs, we are ALL THE SAME. We share things that men can never share or better yet understand about us. So instead of bashing the bitch next to you, talking smack about the way she looks or even trashing her at her weakest point, lend out your helping hand to her because in sooo many different ways, she may turn out to be just like you or when you least expect it she may be the one giving you a helping hand.
GIRL CODE#5
Don't mess with my man....
I have no idea why we always want to have something that we can't have. Of course the temptation of getting something that isn't yours is always an adrenaline rush but honey, there is no way in which ever continent that pulling out each others hair looks sexy in front of a man. you just look PLAIN DUMB STUPID.... asin really? Yes there's something called fighting for your man but gals, men wan t women who will not pull LOCO stunts in public. Yes he may grab a gals ass or random stares at her what you can simply do is pull him to the side and tell him that he needs to respect you and trust you me, HE WILL....When you pull up your drama stunt, he will continue doing the same shit over and over again and enjoy every moment of you acting stupid, leave you and move with the less dramatic gal...now would you want that? Be the elegant one and walk away and if he daen listen to you, then it's about time you leave his ass at the door way.
At the end of the day, if a gal daen respect the bond that they have with their fellow gal, sweety hit the bitch to the curb because she ain worth your time or energy.And she DEFINITELY ain A SISTER or a GAL...gals, its time you check your list of friends and see who are your sisters and your bitches...time to trim off the unwanted weight.
Sunday 16 February 2014
Wednesday 12 February 2014
2014
I made new year's resolutions way before the year came to an end and I had about 10-12 things on my to do list....we are now in February,,,So far sooo good...only problem is I ain keeping up with one of them...MY BLOGG....
I have such a crazy schedule that at times i forget that i need ME TIME...I have to balance between work, my new business venture and the things i run in the house. At the same time i have been fighting with my own personal issues and trying to get a hang of certain dynamic changes in my life. I tend to realize i forget about myself. Well, some things have to definitely change. And we can start from here...
For starters,
I started writing this beginning of the year...I was on the right track if i may say...but i wasn't sure on what to write on. I didn't have writer's block either. ( I have a notebook filled with different notes and ideas I had over the past few weeks). 6 weeks into the year is when I finally got it together.
I always get questions from my friends, family and people who stumble upon my blog asking "what is it about?" "do you write about experiences you have gone through?" "Are the stories real?" "If the stories are about you should bring down your photo..." and i'm like...WAIT A MIN...WHAT???
My writings are all based on true stories my friends have shared with me or stories I've experienced myself. In My Eyes Journal is about how I see things and how other people try to make me see things in their perspective. Its basically real life stories through my writings and feel. I usually ask for consent from the story bearer's (if that's even the right name) and edit their names for security and confidentiality purposes.
At one point or another, i have come to realize, I either relate to the stories that i have been told and 99% of the time, someone else also does. I always try to see people's opinion and always give a word of advice where i can because you never know who is reading the blog and what they could be going through...
2014...In My Eyes will have bits and pieces of new things...like baking recipes, on and off make-up and fashion tips that i may learn (I'll try), cooking tips and ofcourse stories to relate to. Plus bits and more pieces of what I experience. This is my canvas of expression and so are my audio journals that I will soon start loading...
2014..is all about me...and the new adventures and lessons that I embark on...I hope you will still be supporting me by reading. Your readership means alot to me as it gives me the energy and determination to carry on.
Hope to see you soon.
And feel free to give me comments on the stories.
Time for CHANGE...
Time to ACTIVATE 2014...
Happy reading.
I have such a crazy schedule that at times i forget that i need ME TIME...I have to balance between work, my new business venture and the things i run in the house. At the same time i have been fighting with my own personal issues and trying to get a hang of certain dynamic changes in my life. I tend to realize i forget about myself. Well, some things have to definitely change. And we can start from here...
For starters,
I started writing this beginning of the year...I was on the right track if i may say...but i wasn't sure on what to write on. I didn't have writer's block either. ( I have a notebook filled with different notes and ideas I had over the past few weeks). 6 weeks into the year is when I finally got it together.
I always get questions from my friends, family and people who stumble upon my blog asking "what is it about?" "do you write about experiences you have gone through?" "Are the stories real?" "If the stories are about you should bring down your photo..." and i'm like...WAIT A MIN...WHAT???
My writings are all based on true stories my friends have shared with me or stories I've experienced myself. In My Eyes Journal is about how I see things and how other people try to make me see things in their perspective. Its basically real life stories through my writings and feel. I usually ask for consent from the story bearer's (if that's even the right name) and edit their names for security and confidentiality purposes.
At one point or another, i have come to realize, I either relate to the stories that i have been told and 99% of the time, someone else also does. I always try to see people's opinion and always give a word of advice where i can because you never know who is reading the blog and what they could be going through...
2014...In My Eyes will have bits and pieces of new things...like baking recipes, on and off make-up and fashion tips that i may learn (I'll try), cooking tips and ofcourse stories to relate to. Plus bits and more pieces of what I experience. This is my canvas of expression and so are my audio journals that I will soon start loading...
2014..is all about me...and the new adventures and lessons that I embark on...I hope you will still be supporting me by reading. Your readership means alot to me as it gives me the energy and determination to carry on.
Hope to see you soon.
And feel free to give me comments on the stories.
Time for CHANGE...
Time to ACTIVATE 2014...
Happy reading.
When She Cries
When she cries,
All happiness and joy is wiped off from her face,
She can no longer pretend to hold it in and say "Everything is Ok"
When she cries,
She lets her guard down,
Falls vulnerable in the eyes of the world.
When she cries,
She doesn't care about who sees her,
Or how the world thinks of her.
When she cries,
She lets her mascara run down her cheeks,
And let the tears draw lines down her flawless face.
When she cries,
It's not a sign of weakness,
But a sign of expression.
When she cries,
She doesn't think about what will happen next,
But concentrates on the emotions at hand,
Wondering: "what next?"
#sigh#
Just a random thought...not poetry.
All happiness and joy is wiped off from her face,
She can no longer pretend to hold it in and say "Everything is Ok"
When she cries,
She lets her guard down,
Falls vulnerable in the eyes of the world.
When she cries,
She doesn't care about who sees her,
Or how the world thinks of her.
When she cries,
She lets her mascara run down her cheeks,
And let the tears draw lines down her flawless face.
When she cries,
It's not a sign of weakness,
But a sign of expression.
When she cries,
She doesn't think about what will happen next,
But concentrates on the emotions at hand,
Wondering: "what next?"
#sigh#
Just a random thought...not poetry.
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