I always find it hilarious when guys complain about " Women
are complicated" "Women are hard to understand" "To deal
with a woman you need a manual". Still tickles me when I think about it.
Gentlemen, let's dive back to
the creation story. Woman was created from Man's rib. So, as a
man, do you need a manual to understand yourself?
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nfortunately, as humans, we tend to complain about minimal things
that if one takes keen interest and notice the little things, you will get it right.
Let me test you: if you are very keen to detail; the "manual" is
right before your eyes. Let's see if you're smart enough to get it.
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otice the little or big details that trigger her anger and AVOID
them. Its that SIMPLE.
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on't you dare disrespect her. This can be a touchy topic because I've heard guys say the only reason they disrespect their ladies is because
they either deserve it or because of how they act. So question is, WHY ARE
YOU WITH HER? I personally detest men who disrespect women. Women are powerful
beings because we have to ability to bring life to this world, take care of
beings, clean up after you and yet you think you have the balls to lay a hand
on her. When she's out of the door, you come back crying and begging her
back.... no one ain got time for that. Who raised you? Respect the women in your life; SIMPLE. Women, on the
other hand, don't disrespect your men. What we fail to think about in the moment
is the effect of losing what you have. You never know the value till you no
longer have it.
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ducate. Educate. Educate. When you don't like something in a
certain way, show how you like it done if not say it. Let the person know you either, ain't comfortable with
something or you just don't like it. For instance, I love a specific salad from
one of the coffee houses in my town but I hate the fact they make it with
onions. When I order for the salad, these days, they don't even ask me, it
comes without the onions and I leave as a happy customer unlike when I watch other
people grouch and complain about minor things that can easily be changed. God
created you with a mouth for a reason.
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eading signals is like the worst thing ever. People who know me,
know how I really hate reading signs. You either communicate clearly; in black
and white or don't bother at all. Trying to read in between the lines is
like...without cursing. I can't even explain it. You need to communicate effectively unless you
enjoy going off and being on each others throats.
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haring. Sharing experiences. Sharing thoughts. Sharing emotions.
This is something that I have learnt that goes a long way. Despite been a form
of communication, it makes you understand the other person's perspective as
well as; in some instances; explain a certain way of reaction.
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he meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two
chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed- C.G
Jung. Can you
imagine dating your clone? Of course at first it would be amazing but after
awhile it would get odd and in ALL honesty... BORING followed by a CLASH. For
those of you who think your clone would be the perfect match; you are straight
up FULL OF YOURSELF. #JustSaying
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s a single child, I have always been told that I am self-centered.
And the ironic bit is I always challenge the people who come up with that
statement. If I am self-centered, then why do I bother accommodating
you? Its always a husher. I do agree accommodating someone can be hard
but one needs to consider the attributes that they have to stand up to because
there's no one who is perfect. We all have a trait that drives someone if not
some people up the wall. So before you ever go off on her again, think of what
she has to take from you.
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ever compare. I believe this rule should only be when purchasing
materialistic items. Comparison is very delicate as it affects one's attributes
and character. This immediately triggers a spark that makes one flip out very
easily.
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aring to be different is definitely scary (for those obsessed with
routines and constant actions) but once in awhile, going out of your norm, not
only pushes you to do something different but exposes a chance to explore something new. I
have a friend whose husband did the most outrageous thing ( I would say in his
books) but it was all in the name of love and was definitely worth the risk.
Doing what she likes once in awhile won't kill you.
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onesty is better than SUGAR COATED BULLSHIT. You may like it or
not but I will tell you like it is. Honesty is one of the things that breaks
trust in any type of relationship. It may sting and hurt but I always say its
best for someone to know the truth from me other than from someone else. This
applies especially to those closest to me.
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valuate the situation before saying a word. I don't think I'm the
only one who stomps off when I'm upset.... ok let me be honest... I go silent.
Then you come round and ask me "Are you mad at me?" "Nah. I
just miss chewing gum..." If you are keen with a lady, especially
during an argument, you will know when she's upset. So please.... don't ask if
we are ok. It'll land you in the bad books if not a cold shoulder when you go
to bed.
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elationships are very diverse. Each with their own extremities.
One just needs to understand the other person...as simple as that :-)
