We always read about BOY CODE and always hear the same ish day in day out but why is it that us girls never abide to it? Why is it that we stab each other way into deep and yet our bonding is more stronger than the guys?
GIRL CODE #1
Be True to yourself.
You will never be true to others if you can't be true to yourself. Honesty is the one virtues that the human brain needs in order to sustain sane relationships with not only oneself but with others around them. BE TRUE GAL.
GIRL CODE#2
Sisterhood is stronger than BALLS...
Its soo funny how we always tend to pick dudes over ourselves. We actually break our sisterhood bonds in order to be with a guy. At the end of the day, the guy will taste you, use you then leave you by yourself and you ask yourself, "was it really worth it?" I've watched gals go through that countless of times and i have also been a victim of this; left for a man. Coming back to re-work this realtionships is usually not that easy because it is broken hearts coming together to work things out. At times it may be successful. At times it may never be workable. Tip: Is he really worht it? is he really worth losinf a sister?
GIRL CODE #3
Sharing is caring
We are known to talk alot...in comparison to the male species. Whenever we undergo issues, we fall back onto our gals as venting pillows or shoulders we ca lean on. Like i always say, a problem shared is half solved. Whenever you talk an issue out, you feel a light weighted lifted off your shoulders and at the same time a nother gal could easily relate to it. I shared that experience with 3 of my gals who are now more like sisters to me..... A PROBLEM SHARED IS HALF SOLVED.
GIRL CODE #4
We are all the same.
Despite the color, race, religion or beliefs, we are ALL THE SAME. We share things that men can never share or better yet understand about us. So instead of bashing the bitch next to you, talking smack about the way she looks or even trashing her at her weakest point, lend out your helping hand to her because in sooo many different ways, she may turn out to be just like you or when you least expect it she may be the one giving you a helping hand.
GIRL CODE#5
Don't mess with my man....
I have no idea why we always want to have something that we can't have. Of course the temptation of getting something that isn't yours is always an adrenaline rush but honey, there is no way in which ever continent that pulling out each others hair looks sexy in front of a man. you just look PLAIN DUMB STUPID.... asin really? Yes there's something called fighting for your man but gals, men wan t women who will not pull LOCO stunts in public. Yes he may grab a gals ass or random stares at her what you can simply do is pull him to the side and tell him that he needs to respect you and trust you me, HE WILL....When you pull up your drama stunt, he will continue doing the same shit over and over again and enjoy every moment of you acting stupid, leave you and move with the less dramatic gal...now would you want that? Be the elegant one and walk away and if he daen listen to you, then it's about time you leave his ass at the door way.
At the end of the day, if a gal daen respect the bond that they have with their fellow gal, sweety hit the bitch to the curb because she ain worth your time or energy.And she DEFINITELY ain A SISTER or a GAL...gals, its time you check your list of friends and see who are your sisters and your bitches...time to trim off the unwanted weight.
Sunday, 16 February 2014
Wednesday, 12 February 2014
2014
I made new year's resolutions way before the year came to an end and I had about 10-12 things on my to do list....we are now in February,,,So far sooo good...only problem is I ain keeping up with one of them...MY BLOGG....
I have such a crazy schedule that at times i forget that i need ME TIME...I have to balance between work, my new business venture and the things i run in the house. At the same time i have been fighting with my own personal issues and trying to get a hang of certain dynamic changes in my life. I tend to realize i forget about myself. Well, some things have to definitely change. And we can start from here...
For starters,
I started writing this beginning of the year...I was on the right track if i may say...but i wasn't sure on what to write on. I didn't have writer's block either. ( I have a notebook filled with different notes and ideas I had over the past few weeks). 6 weeks into the year is when I finally got it together.
I always get questions from my friends, family and people who stumble upon my blog asking "what is it about?" "do you write about experiences you have gone through?" "Are the stories real?" "If the stories are about you should bring down your photo..." and i'm like...WAIT A MIN...WHAT???
My writings are all based on true stories my friends have shared with me or stories I've experienced myself. In My Eyes Journal is about how I see things and how other people try to make me see things in their perspective. Its basically real life stories through my writings and feel. I usually ask for consent from the story bearer's (if that's even the right name) and edit their names for security and confidentiality purposes.
At one point or another, i have come to realize, I either relate to the stories that i have been told and 99% of the time, someone else also does. I always try to see people's opinion and always give a word of advice where i can because you never know who is reading the blog and what they could be going through...
2014...In My Eyes will have bits and pieces of new things...like baking recipes, on and off make-up and fashion tips that i may learn (I'll try), cooking tips and ofcourse stories to relate to. Plus bits and more pieces of what I experience. This is my canvas of expression and so are my audio journals that I will soon start loading...
2014..is all about me...and the new adventures and lessons that I embark on...I hope you will still be supporting me by reading. Your readership means alot to me as it gives me the energy and determination to carry on.
Hope to see you soon.
And feel free to give me comments on the stories.
Time for CHANGE...
Time to ACTIVATE 2014...
Happy reading.
I have such a crazy schedule that at times i forget that i need ME TIME...I have to balance between work, my new business venture and the things i run in the house. At the same time i have been fighting with my own personal issues and trying to get a hang of certain dynamic changes in my life. I tend to realize i forget about myself. Well, some things have to definitely change. And we can start from here...
For starters,
I started writing this beginning of the year...I was on the right track if i may say...but i wasn't sure on what to write on. I didn't have writer's block either. ( I have a notebook filled with different notes and ideas I had over the past few weeks). 6 weeks into the year is when I finally got it together.
I always get questions from my friends, family and people who stumble upon my blog asking "what is it about?" "do you write about experiences you have gone through?" "Are the stories real?" "If the stories are about you should bring down your photo..." and i'm like...WAIT A MIN...WHAT???
My writings are all based on true stories my friends have shared with me or stories I've experienced myself. In My Eyes Journal is about how I see things and how other people try to make me see things in their perspective. Its basically real life stories through my writings and feel. I usually ask for consent from the story bearer's (if that's even the right name) and edit their names for security and confidentiality purposes.
At one point or another, i have come to realize, I either relate to the stories that i have been told and 99% of the time, someone else also does. I always try to see people's opinion and always give a word of advice where i can because you never know who is reading the blog and what they could be going through...
2014...In My Eyes will have bits and pieces of new things...like baking recipes, on and off make-up and fashion tips that i may learn (I'll try), cooking tips and ofcourse stories to relate to. Plus bits and more pieces of what I experience. This is my canvas of expression and so are my audio journals that I will soon start loading...
2014..is all about me...and the new adventures and lessons that I embark on...I hope you will still be supporting me by reading. Your readership means alot to me as it gives me the energy and determination to carry on.
Hope to see you soon.
And feel free to give me comments on the stories.
Time for CHANGE...
Time to ACTIVATE 2014...
Happy reading.
When She Cries
When she cries,
All happiness and joy is wiped off from her face,
She can no longer pretend to hold it in and say "Everything is Ok"
When she cries,
She lets her guard down,
Falls vulnerable in the eyes of the world.
When she cries,
She doesn't care about who sees her,
Or how the world thinks of her.
When she cries,
She lets her mascara run down her cheeks,
And let the tears draw lines down her flawless face.
When she cries,
It's not a sign of weakness,
But a sign of expression.
When she cries,
She doesn't think about what will happen next,
But concentrates on the emotions at hand,
Wondering: "what next?"
#sigh#
Just a random thought...not poetry.
All happiness and joy is wiped off from her face,
She can no longer pretend to hold it in and say "Everything is Ok"
When she cries,
She lets her guard down,
Falls vulnerable in the eyes of the world.
When she cries,
She doesn't care about who sees her,
Or how the world thinks of her.
When she cries,
She lets her mascara run down her cheeks,
And let the tears draw lines down her flawless face.
When she cries,
It's not a sign of weakness,
But a sign of expression.
When she cries,
She doesn't think about what will happen next,
But concentrates on the emotions at hand,
Wondering: "what next?"
#sigh#
Just a random thought...not poetry.
Sunday, 3 November 2013
ECLIPSE
An eclipse is a rare experience. When do you ever hear that
the sun or moon have crossed each other’s paths? It is such a beautiful site.
Be it a lunar or solar eclipse….and for just a few minutes, there is either a
shadow or complete darkness and soon the experience is over. Though it’s funny
how, when u look at the sun with your bare eyes on a normal day, you don’t get
any effect but during an eclipse, your eyes actually do hurt and you have to
wear the protective UV glasses. Coming to think about it…where do guys store
them? Hmmmm
In reality, we do experiences eclipses; the point in life
where one is stuck in a dark situation and is struggling to find their way out.
We tend to fight ourselves till the path ways are finally clear. The sad bit is
by the time we are finding the way out…we are damaged. Just like looking at the
sun during an eclipse…..it stings, is painful and to some can actually leave
you blind. One tends to cry their heart out, fight themselves, others enter
depression, while others fight with denial.
Though others have the protective film all over themselves
and they are able to glide through the situation because they know how to
handle it. Fighting their way out though sing the right techniques. Then we
tend to wonder: How the hell did you pull
though it? I believe it’s the mentality of once bitten twice shy….
At the end of the day, it is just a passing trial. Which are
to make s stronger, smarter and careful. We aren’t super heroes….that is for
sure but we can overcome the 15 minutes of darkness and take it to be an
experience that we will never forget because in reality we all experience
different situations that still have the same note if not effect; right?
Friday, 30 August 2013
Gravity
Something always brings me back to
u,
And never takes too long,
No matter what i say or do,
I still feel u to the moment am
gone!
You hold me without touch,
And keep me without chains!
I never wanted anything so much,
Than to drown in ur love n not feel
ur reign!
Set me free,
Let me be,
I don wanna fall anada moment into
ur gravity.
Here i am,
And i stand so tall,
Just the way am supposed to be but,
Ur on to me,
n all over me!
You loved me coz am fragile,
And i thought i was strong,
But you touch me 4 a lil while,
And all ma fragile strength is
gone!
Set me free,
Let me be,
I don wanna fall anada moment into
your gravity.
Here i am,
And i stand so tall,
Just the way am supposed to be but,
Ur on to me,
N all over me!
I leave hia on ma knees,
As i try to make you
see that,
Everything you think i
need,
Here on the ground,
But you're neither friend or foe,
Though i can't seem to let you
go,
But one thing i still know is,
You're keeping me down!
You're keeping me down!
Yeah!
You're on to me,
And all over.
Something always brings me back to
you
It never takes too long!!!!!!
Have u ever felt this way? When the
"GRAVITY" pulls you down n it just controls u??
When u can’t fight it n u just want
give in?
What do u do next?
A Cry
A cry for help,
A cry of sadness
A cry of sorrow
A cry of a lonely heart
A cry of not having what we want
A cry of hopelessness
A cry 4 love
A cry of pain
A child raised with morals n values,
A child brought into a world of love
But has to fight the cruel world all alone
With all the negativity, judgment and neglecting
With time, as a human you eventually adapt to your surroundings.
Left alone,
Feeling helpless,
Alone,
Scared
And all alone
But with the love around, it’s not strong enough.
Fighting and making your own stand to be a force to reckon with was all that the child could do.
Fit in with the others, camouflage and blend in
Wrong crowd but bears a life changing experience that leaves child weak though strengthen through the inner child.
But wait?
Is it too late for family intervention?
Child is already lost to the world of lies, deceit, pain and insecurity.
No! No! Leave me alone! You’re hurting me but no one comes to her rescue
Scarred for life.
Ashamed
Hurt and in pain.
Psychological trauma? Maybe
Child wonders deep into the world
Experimental
But doesn’t fill what was lost
One little mistake and child discovers, she’s alone and nowhere to run to but home
In pain,
In tears
In anger
“Why me?”
Child learns the hard way and cant change the person they are
Do things get better?
Witness a life threatening situation
Witness many troopers fall along the way
Witness oneself in the grave
“Where am I?” “Someone please help”
I’ve come to realize that in life, so much goes on, the stories we hear about other people are at times scary and yet we still judge them and at times make fun of them.
Question is 10 years down the line what if this happens to your child?
Or life experiences are like a footpath where we wipe off the footprints and scenarios we wouldn’t want others to experience?
Question is will you be there to listen or judge
Be the tissue and shoulder needed?
A cry of sadness
A cry of sorrow
A cry of a lonely heart
A cry of not having what we want
A cry of hopelessness
A cry 4 love
A cry of pain
A child raised with morals n values,
A child brought into a world of love
But has to fight the cruel world all alone
With all the negativity, judgment and neglecting
With time, as a human you eventually adapt to your surroundings.
Left alone,
Feeling helpless,
Alone,
Scared
And all alone
But with the love around, it’s not strong enough.
Fighting and making your own stand to be a force to reckon with was all that the child could do.
Fit in with the others, camouflage and blend in
Wrong crowd but bears a life changing experience that leaves child weak though strengthen through the inner child.
But wait?
Is it too late for family intervention?
Child is already lost to the world of lies, deceit, pain and insecurity.
No! No! Leave me alone! You’re hurting me but no one comes to her rescue
Scarred for life.
Ashamed
Hurt and in pain.
Psychological trauma? Maybe
Child wonders deep into the world
Experimental
But doesn’t fill what was lost
One little mistake and child discovers, she’s alone and nowhere to run to but home
In pain,
In tears
In anger
“Why me?”
Child learns the hard way and cant change the person they are
Do things get better?
Witness a life threatening situation
Witness many troopers fall along the way
Witness oneself in the grave
“Where am I?” “Someone please help”
I’ve come to realize that in life, so much goes on, the stories we hear about other people are at times scary and yet we still judge them and at times make fun of them.
Question is 10 years down the line what if this happens to your child?
Or life experiences are like a footpath where we wipe off the footprints and scenarios we wouldn’t want others to experience?
Question is will you be there to listen or judge
Be the tissue and shoulder needed?
SPEECHLESS!!!!!!!!!!!
Is ur punchline just a joke?
Il neva talk again,
Oh boy uv left me speechless,
Uv left me spechless,
So speechless.
N il neva love again,
Oh boy u left me speechless
Uv left me speechless,
So speechless
I cant blv hw u slured at me,
With ur half wide broken jaw
U popped my hearties
Ol dried up bubbled dreams!!!!
I no its complicated!!!
And after all the drinks and bars wiv bin 2,
Would u give it all up,
Could u give it al up 4 u
if i promised to you
And after the boys and girls wiv bin thru
Would u give it all up,
Could u u give it all up,
If i promised boy to you..........
Thats hw we feel wen we loose a loved one,argue with a loved one in life!!!the above words r lyrics inspired by Lady Gaga wen ha father was in hospital battlin ut cancer and left me wondering,wat would happen next?
What do we do wen we luz a lvd one?
Fight with a loved one?
The number of things we say to them o wish we neva had said to them,
The number of things we wish we said o did with them?
Alot of things have happended in my life and some have pulled me down,destroyed me,get closer to people but at the end of hte wat happens next?
I no we have all lost loved ones and we always ask ourselves y did they have to go and at tyms y not us awaselves?
There some situations wea we feel like we no longer wan b on this earth,cacoon ourselves in our own pods and just segregate ourselves 4rm everyone else!!!
What happens wen ur all alon n have no wea to go to?
Wen the one pason u trusted is no longer there?
Wen the pason u thot was ur life kills u n takes away ur reason to live?
When u don undastand y al dis is happenin to u n jus wana run?
Thinkk of it this way
A trial in life that strengthens u,
Mkes u stronger and builds u!!!
I dedicate this to all the loved ones wiv lost thru this lifetym and neva understood y it happend!!!!
CAN WE PLEASE HAVE A MOMENT OF SILENT..........
MWAH!!
As day comes,
And night falls,
for the rest of our life,
Life must go on.
Tho I stil mourn y u had to go!!!
MAY THEIR SOULS REST IN PEACE
Il neva talk again,
Oh boy uv left me speechless,
Uv left me spechless,
So speechless.
N il neva love again,
Oh boy u left me speechless
Uv left me speechless,
So speechless
I cant blv hw u slured at me,
With ur half wide broken jaw
U popped my hearties
Ol dried up bubbled dreams!!!!
I no its complicated!!!
And after all the drinks and bars wiv bin 2,
Would u give it all up,
Could u give it al up 4 u
if i promised to you
And after the boys and girls wiv bin thru
Would u give it all up,
Could u u give it all up,
If i promised boy to you..........
Thats hw we feel wen we loose a loved one,argue with a loved one in life!!!the above words r lyrics inspired by Lady Gaga wen ha father was in hospital battlin ut cancer and left me wondering,wat would happen next?
What do we do wen we luz a lvd one?
Fight with a loved one?
The number of things we say to them o wish we neva had said to them,
The number of things we wish we said o did with them?
Alot of things have happended in my life and some have pulled me down,destroyed me,get closer to people but at the end of hte wat happens next?
I no we have all lost loved ones and we always ask ourselves y did they have to go and at tyms y not us awaselves?
There some situations wea we feel like we no longer wan b on this earth,cacoon ourselves in our own pods and just segregate ourselves 4rm everyone else!!!
What happens wen ur all alon n have no wea to go to?
Wen the one pason u trusted is no longer there?
Wen the pason u thot was ur life kills u n takes away ur reason to live?
When u don undastand y al dis is happenin to u n jus wana run?
Thinkk of it this way
A trial in life that strengthens u,
Mkes u stronger and builds u!!!
I dedicate this to all the loved ones wiv lost thru this lifetym and neva understood y it happend!!!!
CAN WE PLEASE HAVE A MOMENT OF SILENT..........
MWAH!!
As day comes,
And night falls,
for the rest of our life,
Life must go on.
Tho I stil mourn y u had to go!!!
MAY THEIR SOULS REST IN PEACE
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